What is the meaning of phileo love?
What is the meaning of phileo love?
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New format with engaging questions and other great discipleship material coming soon! This page is in the old format but still contains compelling, relevant, and practical biblical content! The Greek language has terms for four kinds of love. These terms are phileo , agape , storge , and eros. The two latter Greek terms for love are not mentioned in the Bible, although we do see them expressed in certain stories. To better underst and * phileo*love, it must be defined as one part of these four terms.
Storgeis affectionate love. This love exists naturally between family members and friends, such as the warm, unforced love shown between spouses, or between a parent and a child. Storge love is displayed in many stories in the Bible, such as in the stories of Noah, Jacob, and Mary, Martha, and Lazarus.
Eros * is sexual or passionate love. Song of Solomon paints the best example of this love. God created this love, just as He created all the other sides of love, and it is important within a marriage relationship. But the Bible also warns againsteros* outside of the husb and and wife marital relationship (1 Corinthians 6:18; 1 Thessalonians 4:3).
Agapelove is sacrificial love. This is the most noble and powerful type of love because it is an act of the will. Christ showed us agape love when he died on the cross, sacrificing Himself so that we can know eternal life and salvation.
Phileo * love is brotherly love. This type of love is most often shown within close friendships. This is a generous and affectionate love that seeks to make the other person happy with no expectation for the acts of kindness to be returned. David and Jonathan are one of the Bible’s best examples ofphileo* love within a friendship. First Samuel 18:1–3 describes their friendship and says, in part, that “… the soul of Jonathan was knit to the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as his own soul. … Then Jonathan made a covenant with David, because he loved him as his own soul.”
Phileo * love is shown toward people we feel warm and affectionate to. This means that we do not show our enemiesphileo * love because we do not feel warm and affectionate toward them. However, God does call us to showagape * love toward those individuals we dislike and clash with (Luke 6:28; Matthew 5:44). As we grow closer to God and experience more of His compassion, we may even experiencephileo* love toward people we are beginning to underst and better.